With the name of the seminar being "Save my Marriage" I do not think there is anyway that she is going to take this as anything but you trying to change her mind. Also you are putting doubt in the ability that she has to think for herself by saying you wnat her to look deep down and really think if this is what she truly wants.
So when are you going to ask her? Are you doing it in person or via email?
The name of the seminar is "A new beginning", save my marriage is just the website. We I never see in person but I do not know if I am going to call her and ask or send it email. I would rather do it in person but I dont know if she would even want to see me. I asked her is she can get a weekend off and she said not for a while and asked why...