Wow on the house! That's quite a long way from sleeping on an air mattress in your 1br apt! I agree with Puddle- you absolutely must tell her that you're planning to buy a house. I see bad things happening if you wait...

me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08