LOVE IT, but you may want to actually spell out "if you want a separation, you have to move out" and "I want to hold onto our M and work out our problems and that would be my choice over you moving out, but that will ultimately be your decision." I realize you said these things in so many words, however, you may want to make those 2 points VERY, VERY clear.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10