LOVE IT, but you may want to actually spell out "if you want a separation, you have to move out" and "I want to hold onto our M and work out our problems and that would be my choice over you moving out, but that will ultimately be your decision." I realize you said these things in so many words, however, you may want to make those 2 points VERY, VERY clear.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10