cat.
I dont even think that would be considered a compromise. I just dont understand how I can do it and she is incapable...I think unwilling is the more frustrating part. My W does do things when she gets home as well...(there is no chocolate covered bon bons and poodles involved)
I don't know if I just have the most "mismanaged home in entire creation" or what but it's beyond a fulltime job! It just would make things seem a little more fluid if there was another pair of hands and eyes to assist. I just would like a small half hour of downtime to at least focus on my thoughts not those of others.
But thank you for the congrats! I do feel a lot better even though it doesnt seem like it I am focused and that feels real good.

High, I never expects "pearls" of wisdom...I dont like pearls..you know what the inmates do with pearls....
I am just spouting and wondering about how to ease the stream of frustration. I know it's tiresome to here but I appreciate that all of you out there are REALLY out there....

peace