I would go semi-dark. I would not contact him AT ALL unless he initiates the contact. Then, I would be friendly w/ him -- ask him if he's having a good time, etc., but DON'T ALWAYS respond right away or at all for maybe even a few days. This could backfire, you never know, but also, it may make him wonder what you're doing w/ your time. That's just my input.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10