I would go semi-dark. I would not contact him AT ALL unless he initiates the contact. Then, I would be friendly w/ him -- ask him if he's having a good time, etc., but DON'T ALWAYS respond right away or at all for maybe even a few days. This could backfire, you never know, but also, it may make him wonder what you're doing w/ your time. That's just my input.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10