A few minutes into the small talk she told me: "I think it's time for me to move out. I don't want to but I don't see any other choice."
I asked her why she felt she had to leave. Her response: "The longer I stay here the longer you will have hope. I want it to end, I can't go back, I have no hope."
My W is having similar feelings right now, but hasn't suggested she move out.
Detach MCC. If she needs to move out, I don't think you can or should stop her. I even think in a warped sense that this is somewhat noble on her part. That she feels so strongly about this that she is willing go to that extent. If it happens you need stay strong and focus on the family. I think it would only be a matter of time before she realizes all of the good things she'll be losing.
