"I just said sorry he didn't feel up to going out, and kept on with what I was doing."
Nikki, I'd say that was fine validation. You acknowledged his feelings and didn't take it personally.
Have fun at the party tonight :-D
I was thinking the same exact thing when I read that line. You want to be miserable? Fine, but it's SO not my fault. Your H is in a pity party here, but that doesn't mean you have to join him.
Your room sounds exciting! Makes me want to redecorate. I agree with the others who say H is going to be floored when you move in there. He might be ugly for a bit...but if you can remember that it's NOT about you and that it's HIS crazy, you'll be able to stay detached enough. Heck, if you have to, install a lock on your door.
You sound great. Remember who you are. Remember H's behavior is about him, and just because he decides to say something doesn't make it true.
Have fun tonight!
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
