Great to hear from you again ... even better to hear how well you are doing for yourself. Many of us understand what a survivor that makes you. You are a DB success. For those that see DB as a single minded goal of saving a M, this is not the case. DB is for the salvation of the LBS.
That may include a restored M, and it may not. But this is about the LBS becoming whole again, better, and living the intended life. We just don't always know going in, what the intended part is.