HI Mwel I really do not think there is any way that you can ask her to go to this seminar without her thinking you are trying to change her mind. I mean the seminar is about trying to save a marriage correct and she does not want to save yours so I really do not see how you can ask and not have her think that. What exactly is the seminar about?
Originally Posted By: Just_Me
You can't change the message to look like you don't want to change her mind. What other reason would there be to go to this seminar? And don't say, "for me", unless this is a seminar on how to divorce peacefully, which I doubt.
Yeah, that's what Im running into..I want to show her that leaving isn't always the best answer and I would like to show her this and let her know what she will be losing. I do not want to change her mind, but I want her to look deep down and really think if this is what she truely wants...and if it is that is all I need to know, this is also a way for giving it one last chance and also help me come to sign the papers...Also maybe this will give us a new fresh start, even if we will just be friends.
