day by day

[Michael Mc C]

Not long ago I, too, felt like the backup plan, 2nd choice, etc. Now I feel more like a safety net. She has no place to go. Her romantic interest in OM is still there but he has adamantly told her "no more" (although she claimed to have ended it, what she really did was tell him that since he needs space, he should contact her when he's ready - some ending).

So now she's dazed and has no love for me (that she's willing to admit to anyway). At this point, I don't even feel like I'm in the running!

All in due time. It can't happen overnight. If it did, I would be REALLY apprehensive!