You can't change the message to look like you don't want to change her mind. What other reason would there be to go to this seminar? And don't say, "for me", unless this is a seminar on how to divorce peacefully, which I doubt.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
