FWIW I agree with Heim. You need to have more confidence in yourself. I lack greatly in that area and don't like myself much so assume that others won't like me or value me much.

I wanted to cry when you posted about not being quite good enough. To feel that way is so horrid :(. Have you ever talked to your mum about how you feel? If not I am sure she would be quite shocked. As a parent I know I would be very upset if my children thought I didn't think any of them were good enough. I bet that your H doesn't think he is good enough for you either, (NOT that you aren't good enough for him).


((((((((HUGS))))))))))

YOU CAN get through this.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength