Feeling a bit sorry for herself, is she, poor thing. If she wants to do something right for somebody for once, she needs to pull up her boot straps & get back to where she needs to be -- w/ you and your D's and start working on putting your family back together, but she still needs time to figure this out.

I think it's good for her to wonder what you're doing and where you are/who you're w/. It will hit her one of these days that she could honestly lose you and that she may have shot herself in the foot.

My H also said he was "sick of being the bad guy" all the time. Poor thing.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10