I'll let GD hit the control angles. In brief, I think you did real good. You stuck by your guns, stood up for yourself, held the door open in the face of some very demeaning comments from your H and told him exactly what you need to stay in the M.

I would like to hit your H with an actual 2X4 (or baseball bat or lead pipe or whatever is handy).

BD

My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.