Even if he 'came back' to me right now, it wouldn't be for the right reasons.
You are so right - their seedy and tawdry (SP?) affair needs to come full circle - he can only come back to you when HE wants to - when he wakes up are realizes (if he can) what a fool he has been. By then you may or may not even want him back...
You are doing awesome - keep the faith!!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing