I just bought James Dobson's book "Love Must be Tough". My divorce was final on August 24th. My ex is now seeing OM and has been for some time. I just wish I knew how long. I wish I would have purchased the book when I was first separated. He speaks from almost 20 years of marriage counseling based on a Christian perspective. Don't know what else to say except that divorce sucks and you will get through it. Try to stay really busy. Keep around supportive friends.
