saffie, thanks. You are right, OW's H and I are both protecting ourselves and our families. I totally agree. I am waiting it out. Maybe he IS stalking her, but that doesn't explain the note and recent 'private' calls on my ID. Stalking her is even more pathetic, in my eyes. How sad.
husband, thanks. I did smile when I read your post. It took effort, but I did it.
hey morgan, just polite exchanges here. Kind of spooky. How are you?
hi hope, thank you so much for posting and reading my thread. I should change it to "Crazy Person", huh? Did your wife end the contact with OM by herself? Did he still try to contact her like my husband does? I am sorry you felt violated when your wife came on here. I agree, sometimes all we are doing is trying to save our marriage, but there are some thoughts they don't need to read. Glad you are back. Hope to see more of you.
