Ok. This may sound silly, but I'm very anxious. I haven't heard a word from her since Monday. She sent an e-mail that didn't require a response, so I didn't answer it. This is the longest I think I've gone without hearing from her, and I'm scared she may be letting go entirely. She is totally infatuated with the OP and could not seem to care less about me. And now no contact whatsoeve. Do I continue to not contact her? I did see her on Sunday (see above post), but she seemed to do an about-face come Monday. She is getting all her stuff that is still here on the weekend, and then I'm afraid I'll never hear from her again. How will she know I haven't given up on her and still hope/want her to do the work she needs to do and maybe see that she could give us another try? I'm still going to therapy, and trying to GAL. I'm taking classes, doing physical activity. I just really miss her and our life and can't believe she gave up something real for something so superficial and adolescent. She is really over the top about the OP, and the OP was still maintaining as recently as a week ago that my partner was way more into it than the OP. Should I be concerned about the lack of contact since Monday?
"In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, grounds for marriage." -- Robert Anderson
