Truly Piecing once and for all!

[Heartbroken]

LWB,

Hello,

I am doing just okay - we had a R talk (of all places the grocery store) and H has decided to write out all his issues (with me, the R...) and all the things he thinks about and bring it to our Retro weekend tomorrow. Not sure if this is something we should be doing (compiling a list) but at least he is thinking about things. We seem to have backslid big time and when I asked him if he wanted to D he said at the point he is right now (so sad and not connecting with me) he would have to say yes. It's always been that way - he has wanted to throw the towel in way more than I ever did. If the sitch were reversed and I had the A we so would be done - there is no way he would have gone through the pain I did...

Question to everyone who has gone through a Retro weekend - anything I should prep for?? Any advice???

I too am compiling a list for H - we sure will have a ton to talk about. I feel stronger this week - I was letting the fear of OW get to me and this I stopped. I am reading a Richard Carlson book - 'Slowing Down to the Speed of Life' and this is really helping to stay in the present moment and not stress about the future. It's out of my control anyways!!!

HB