He contacted her, along with other friends through facebook...at my suggestion!! as they are friends and family he hasn't been in contact with for along time, of course I had no idea who she was.
She does live very far away, takes days to drive or hours to fly.
As you said he is looking for something and thats what hurts.
Over the past few weeks he has told me that he could live with out me, that he deeply loves me, is that all lies? thats what is so hard because does this just kill everything that has been said and done in the last few months, or does he mean them but is confused?
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!