I truly think this is all going to absolutely blow your H away. He's not going to know what to do. I think if you just keep focusing on you and your happiness, you will be nothing BUT happy no matter what H ends up deciding to do. His issues/problems are all about him and he needs to decide to do something to help himself and not expect you to *fix* him anymore or continue to *validate* his unhappiness and therefore allowing him to think it's ok. Does that make sense? Just let him either pick himself up and realize that he's got it pretty good and make it even better or let him continue to allow himself to deteriorate and shape his own future.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
