Well I was approved for my loan so that I can try to get my W to attend the seminar...now the problem is how should I ask her?? Here is what I have so far, please LMK what you think..
I have been thinking a lot about the divorce and signing the papers. I think that I may have my answer but I'm still working some issues out. There is something that I would like to ask you. Are you able to get a weekend off? Friday through Sunday? The reason is my family chipped and loaned me some money for a seminar that I would like for you and I to attend. I'm not expecting this seminar to change your mind in anyway, I would like for you to go with me. I think that this is what I and maybe we need to do. I have a good feeling that this seminar will help me with my decision on signing the papers. I'm not asking you to committ to saving our marriage because I know your mind is already made. I'm asking you to go, listen and participate and at the end of the 3 days I should have my answer. I know our marriage is worth saving and I know that we can have a great life together but I know that isnt going to happen right now. Our marriage is worth three days to see if there might by any hope. After all we have invested in each other, dont you think it's worth another three days? You said that you would help me with what ever I needed with dealing with the divorce, well this is how I want you to help me.
Here is the thing, the seminars are not in Columbus.
