but he doesn't do anything about it...no real therapy, no research on his own. nothing.
Oh dear...sounds like mine again! I mean surely leaving your loved ones would be more terrifying than exploring yourself through therapy, support group, research, reading etc??
Perhaps not...I dont' understand men.
My h is addicted to his job. It is fueling him. I am sad becuase I've been there, done that and I know it can't last forever. I just don't think I can stick around for him to work it out the hard way. Of course, if he started reading recovery books, started going to individual counselling more often than once every six months and started talking with sensible people that aren't having affairs of their own then I'd be taking more notice of him.
It's just sad that no matter what other guy I look at, none of them hold a candle to my h.
