LWB, I've been following your thread and feel as though my sitch is pretty close to yours. I've been posting on here for awhile. Started out in Newcomers and moved to Piecing. My W found my posts and has been reading them. I thought at the time it was helpful for her to see my perspective and I actually think it helped. I've stopped posting for awhile though cause there are some things I don't want her to see at this stage. I've created a new account so I can post again.
Originally Posted By: lwb
Even if he 'came back' to me right now, it wouldn't be for the right reasons.
My W 'came back' early in Sept. and broke off contact with the OG. There was at least one lapse in contact since then, but I don't think she has had contact recently. As you mentioned above, I'm not sure she came back for the right reasons. I almost wish it had run its course and burned out on its own.
It sounds like you are doing great keeping a PMA. Also, since I am an OW's H, I would want you to call me.