I'm going to treat saturday as an informational meeting, as opposed to one that should see any resolutions.
Yes yes yes! Detachment! That is it!
I know it'll be hard but if you _can_ look at it like it is someone else's life and you are collecting information to take away and digest it might help you through the conversation.
As much as the suspense is killing you (and us too!) it won't be possible to find a resolution in one meeting. Disappointing I know....but most likely to be true.
LIsten to him, repeat back what he says to make sure you have heard him correctly. If he asks a question, have a drink of water (take a bottle of water with you) adn think about what you are going to say whilst keeping in mind the mantra "will this help me achieve my goal(s)" (whatever they are).
Hee hee...d showed me a new dance move one of her friends taught her. It's supposed to be a black girls move, y'know the one where they shake their booty and their boobies at the same time. Looks very odd on a white 6 year old !
