that passage is amazing, isn't it, mk? it just frustrates me because H doesn't see it...doesn't explore his own mess at all, just goes with it. he obviously is confused, obviously isn't happy, he knows that and has had a few breakdowns where he has said it to me. but he doesn't do anything about it...no real therapy, no research on his own. nothing.

mk, inching is good, if you feel that is what is best. just don't stand up and start running. if you are going to go the d route, make sure it is what is right for you, a positive action, not as a reaction. will be in your corner no matter what you decide to do.


M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher