I agree with the others. This is something that needs dealing with. Personally I wouldn't be too worried about what they are saying actually happening - these things hardly ever seem to work in reality - but it is the need he has that is not so good. He needs to understand why he feels like this and see that he can't do this to you; that he is being deceitful.
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saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength