This is under newcomers - urgent - Part 2

[GainingStrength]

GISH - Been reading your thread. I second what SingleAgain is saying. Also, you are letting yourself get stuck on W's roller coaster from hell. I know, I've been on it. GET OFF and stay off! Read the DR book for guidance.

People in affairs are insane drug addicts. Plus, it sounds like your W is also in MLC (like mine). The bottom line is they are F'ng crazy while the A lasts and are not responsible for what they say or do. They will lie, cheat and steal to get that next hit from the OP, just like any other addict. And they are totally oblivious of the feelings of their spouse, children and family. The only cure is time, which is on your side. However, in the meantime, every day will seem like a week and every week like a month. The only way to deal with that is to GAL as hard as you can. You need to get some space away from her to do this. Separation might be a good idea.

Anyway, I know what you're going through cause I'm still in it. Keep working. Things really do get better with time.

LL