BI,

Wow...wow...wow...ouch.

Well, hun, maybe it is time to do something different.

If your cup is empty, you'll always need your Husband to fill it. And if he's busy filling is own cup, you'll get jealous and angry cause yours is empty.

Whereas, if your cup is full, you can actually help fill your husband's.

Time to get your cup filled.

What would that look like for you?

Spiritually?

Socially?

Vocationally?

Interests?

Hobbies?

Recreation?

When you're filled up you will be less needy and more patient.

I know money is tight for you. But you've got to get that cup filled.

BI -- save yourself. Then you'll have more resources to throw at your marriage.

My old pastor who's from the South used to say about a strained marriage: two ticks, no dog. Y'all need a dog to draw nourishment from.

--Theoden