Update: Well I did nothing. I did not call atty (who is W bro-in-law) and let him have it although he so deserved it. I did not call W. She can answer the email should she so choose. Actually I went to MIL house as she was sewing some patches on my uniform. She fed me some chili and it was good. But anyway we had a nice conversation with no mention of D or W. SIL showed up and she remarked about my new hairstyle. She approved. (Secretly I hope she relays this to W). Also I think I scored some points with SIL as I saved the front page of the newspaper the day her son was born (SIL forgot to have someone buy a newspaper) although W and I were separated at the time. I wonder if the atty pressuring for the D will have the opposite affect on W. Anyways, there will certainy be more to come.