Laughing, I am so sorry for what you continue to endure. IMO you do need to love from a distance. My own story is didly squat in comparison to yours but in a condensed version I will say that I tried to welcome my stepson, his bride, and their new baby into our home when they needed a place to stay. Everything I did was turned against me, it was my H, his son and family, all against me. SS was very good at twisting things so his dad would always side with him, and DIL was really whacked out but would not take her AD's because she didn't like how they made her feel. Fast forward to about 2 years later, I received a letter from them in their new location thanking me for being the person I was and helping them thru their difficult time, and DIL especially apologized for being so difficult and rude to me and causing such disruption. Yes, you bet I shared that letter with H. I hope you will have similar results when the dust clears and people are able to see clear enough who stirred it up. ((((Laughing))))
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
