Help me thru this sitch

[Pudmuddle]

Ok, so...the saga continues. He just came into the computer room where I was at and said "Ya gotta few minutes?". I said "Sure". He said"Is there any reason why you haven't given a divorce mediator any more thought?" (He had asked me about this few days ago and I said I wasn't ready yet...). The terror struck in my nerves about what to say...but I said "Because I have never wanted it, I don't think it's the answer to our issues". I said "Every marriage goes through these phases and here we are now". He seemed kind of quiet, and stunned, then after a few LONG minutes of silence, he said "K." and left the room. Did I say the right thing???? Sheesh this is so difficult!!! I had no clue what to say, but I did say it calmly and not reactively, so I guess that was a good thing. Sigh.

Please advise.