If OW's H leaves her, she will come at your H full force. She is well aware of her H's stand. She and your H are not trying very hard to hide things. It is very possible she is ready to leave her M. Tread carefully.
Oh yes, I am thinking of this angle, but really, can I stop it? Even if he 'came back' to me right now, it wouldn't be for the right reasons.
Oh well, he is very messy, his messes are messy, and I like it neat. I have to put him aside for now, let him do what he will.
