FWIW, I did not so much as mention our anniversary in June. Neither did W. It was definitely the right thing for me.
RE: fun vs. serious. Either way, you better get back into the gym or I won't be able to hang with you the next time I am in town! (Don't want to give the ladies the wrong impression, ya know.)
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Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread