oh yeah, neph, this is what he is running from. he actually said to me the other day that his IC (who he no longer sees) never helped him with what H sees as his real problems...his confusion about me and ow, and his confusion about the kids...wanting them, but not wanting them. he has made no progress, all of this is stuff he has told me over and over.
as for the agenda, I did ask in an e-mail what specifically he wanted to talk about, but he never answered. so I'm going to use it to my advantage...I'll use it to buy me time if I need to. just need to remember, and be very clear, that I am allowed to ask for time to process this and get back to him on my own time. again, it will be huge for me to do this, and not kneejerk or try to fix things/troubleshoot/defend myself right then and there.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
