There and Back, #10

[nephartiti]

Hey, Morgan. It sounds like you are doing an awesome job prepping yourself. I still think it is appropriate and ok to request a written outline of what he intends to discuss. It is a fair and reasonable request. There is no reason why you should be taken off guard. There is no reason why he should be able to prep and come in with his guns blazing. I see a pattern with your H. He makes it a point to take you off guard. At least he set up an appt for this talk, but I, personally, don't think he should keep the agenda secret. If it is about D proceedings, then he should forwarn you. If it is about kids and OW, he should forwarn you. No matter what.

That's just my 2 cents. I hate being taken off guard too. Knee jerk reactions are my forte