Hardly faking it anymore: Puddle's third thread

[S.T. _I Made It!]

ya, I agree, the together time might really mess with your mind. I mean if he really truly wants the D and never wants to go back, then that could really drive you emotionally crazy. But I guess that's what the detaching is for.

I do commend you for trying it out though. I think in the end, it would be better for the kids, I'm just curious on whether it would be more confusing to them for you guys to be THAT close to each other yet the M is still over with. I think it is important that you both have a good R with each other as separate people, but I don't know about being so close that you spend time together in the home and go on outings together and things like that. although I'm probably just speaking in vain because if he does end up being with someone, there's probably no way that he would continue doing all that. But then, there's the problem with causing confusion on the kids.

Sorry, my brain is a little unscrewed right now. As long as you stay a wonderful committed mom as it sounds like you are, your kids will be fine, and they will learn from your experience. Your doing the best that you can do, and you should be proud of that.