Laughing, I have a very good idea who called the CPS. You know the individual as well--Jane. The reason why I'm saying this is that Dick and Jane, especially Jane, wants your son to think the worse of you. Notice how your son said she's a better mother? Well, my money is on that nut job. The only way to tar and feather you as the enemy was to pull out all of the stops and do this, knowing full well, you would look like the bad guy.
It's easy to call in a complaint and use someone else's name. Doesn't she have a lot of data on you or could Dick give it to her? Your son does tend to talk a bit freely around them, so maybe he gave away some of your information, without meaning to do so.
My advice, would be step back from the entire situation and let it fester all on it's own. You need to allow your son some quiet time to better understand what is going on. Remember, the more you push and try to validate your intentions w/him right now, the more he's going to run right into the arms of Dick and Jane. Allow those two to show their true colors. It will come out.
Laughing, I know this hurts like hell, but you are going to have to love him from afar for a while. This situation is getting so out of hand that I'm afraid for your safety. They are hell bent on destroying you and all of the good you have done w/your children. Step back, let the dust settle and be there for your daughter.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
