I snooped and found emails that h has had with this new ow, turns out they were each others first loves yada yada.

Here is the thing they say they are soul mates and he would be on the next plane out if she asked him

what do i do


Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda