Dear Sun, I just read your thread, and will come over and visit soon!
I just decided that I had taken enough abuse, and that I didn't want any more. The thought of not being abused again is wonderful. I shred the nasty postcards gleefully! I simply do not trust the man in any way shape or form right now, or in the forseeable future unless he has a lobotomy.
But trying to get at me through others???
Thanks Mickey I nearly was suckered in though - I realised that 'friend from the past''s call while I was unable to take it was providential. If I had been at home I probably would have talked to her. Now I have decided to suggest that she calls my son (her Godson], but that I really don't want to talk about it, thank you.
After all she has had a couple of years to find out how I am. As an emissary (?) of h I am not very keen on getting involved with her. I suspect she has undertaken to pass on some stupid message!!