BND, I completely agree, and I would never not have the courage to do this for my kids. But, it does hurt and that is just part of the sacrifice that we make for our children.

Lissie Bean, we talked about this earlier. I have to be ok with feeling bad sometimes and having painful times. I get that now and will not be so hard on myself because I hurt.

Oh well, feeling a bit better today. Good day at work, and it is cooling off quite a bit which I love. The high today was 55 and it was raining. I wore a short sleeve golf shirt and all the local yocals looked at me like I am crazy......

Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09