when she said, if its plutonic, I'm thinking that H is going to take that as, yes I can see OW... just like you said.
Well, H claims it is platonic, so I have to take his word for it. He has to choose to do what he thinks is best for the kids. I think he heard the C---said once or twice he wanted certain things for his own selfish reasons---and I hope he'll stick to that. And if he doesn't, I can't do much about it.
Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!
that IS really crazy that he's wanting all this together time. very untypical I think of most WAS. not really sure what to make on that, but I suppose it is a good thing for the children.
That's what I figure. To be honest, unless H makes some serious changes, there's no way he's going to be at our house in the morning to hang with the kids---the man can't get out of bed.
I'm also not sure so much together time is going to work for me, but I'm willing to try it out.