Oh,Lissie, I know. I read Jeanete's post on Wantlove thread, and her husband walked at almost exactly the same time mine did. I understand her heart-ache.
Mine is STILL spewing: I just feel like I can't take any more bile. ENOUGH. So he starts to involve people from the dim and distant past to try and sucker me in. So I either have to explain teh whole sorry sitch to her, or just say, sorry, but I really don't want to discuss it - I think the latter is better. If she chooses to believe h it is fine with me.