in general "the kids will be OK, they will adjust" yeah, keep telling yourself that Mr./Mrs. Helper.
H was telling the C today how our schedule really won't change much, blah blah blah, and she said something like "This is a big change. A. Big. Change. for the kids, it will affect them, and you need to be aware of that so you can best help them through." I was glad he heard that from someone else.
Originally Posted By: CVA
Most things can be fixed as Michele says.
During our bomb talk, I said something to H like, "The only thing we can't fix is not wanting to fix it." Turns out that's where he was/is. I think that's Michele's "the WAS being too far gone" idea.
Originally Posted By: CVA
BTW, are you SURE you have'nt changed your orientation? At least a little bit? In Paris Hilton lingo, "that's Hot!"
LOL! Man, you kill me. I hadn't thought of that. Thanks!
I have been entertaining thoughts, however, about reaching out to COW (just when I happen upon her at the hangout if I go back). She's made two overtures toward me now. It feels a bit mischievous, but I wonder what would happen if she and I were talking and H knew it. I think he'd feel uncomfortable and want me to stop talking to her, but it'd be interesting to see what happened if he put pressure on COW to stop talking to *me.* I'm just being unkind, really, but the thought made me giggle.
