glad things went well with the Kid C. I'm wondering if it would have been a good idea to share openly what each person took out of the convo in front of the IC. Like, for instance, when she said, if its plutonic, I'm thinking that H is going to take that as, yes I can see OW... just like you said.
we all know how the WAS can open their ears to some noise and shut out the rest.
you did a good job not disagreeing with him before seeing her and just stating lets see what she has to say about it. I think if you were pointing out things that you were right about would have been a bad thing. So it looks like for the most part it was good.
that IS really crazy that he's wanting all this together time. very untypical I think of most WAS. not really sure what to make on that, but I suppose it is a good thing for the children.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
