Hi Jen Jam - thanks for swinging by and weighing in...so difficult to know which way to go. I've been debating the broken record idea because at least it would feel like *I* was doing something other than letting him eat cake. I guess that's my struggle - I feel like he is eating cake. Don't know if I should just get over that or really press the issue. I don't think he will think quitting his job is a big deal to me until I physically walk out the door and I don't want to do that. If I just ignore it (which I have been doing) he thinks (or lets himself believe) that there isn't an issue anymore.
I can totally relate to an H that says he's going to do something and then not. You're right, GAL is the only way to go.
Hmmm...still working this out in my head.
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
