Yes, I know what the "guns" are. My H is all about his too and I too feel they are one of the body parts on H I like a lot.

I'm glad you were able to stay off the smokes, even during this whole thing. I'll be going back on my Chantix in a few weeks & giving it another go. Going to allow myself a bit more recoup time from my surgery before I go there.

I know your W actually filed, but has she done anything since? Does she mention the D?

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10