WAW1978-Part 5

[waw1978]

Do you think you would become attracted to him again and open up to another possible R with him again, or do you think that too much damage has been done and that you just need to move on, despite his obvious changes? If you did begin having a change of heart, how long do you think you would need to see those changes before you believed you could have a good, healthy M with him?
GD

I don't want to give any of you LBS any false hopes here.

For me personally, I never believe that any real friendship ends. I think all relationships go through cycles. For me there is never a real ending so to speak. We may be done for now, but that doesn't mean never ever. I am not one to hold a long term grudge. I could be friends with any of my ex-bf's and no matter how big of an a$$ they may have been in our relationship...I would probably give any one of them a second chance. Probably not a third or fourth cause I am not an idiot. But do you see what I am driving at?

My H & broke up for about 2-3 years when we were dating the first time around. Both dated other people. Then bumped in to each other and before you knew it we were together again. He was a real tool about the first breakup too. But over time I forgave and forgot.

So some of you might be in this rut with your spouses. Sometimes you just need to step back. Build your friendship and see where it goes. You just never know...at least with girls like me, you never know. Damn Aquarius women