And you believe you can do this without any R talk? Any?
I don't know, Heim. I get what you're saying about the 180, sharing real feelings, etc, but I think that's all based on her reaching out. Like GD pointed out, you know her better than we do, but I'd err on the side of caution and assume she's not. (But then I also tend to err on the side of not sharing feelings, and look where that's got me!)
Also, I think you sometimes underestimate the effect of your (negative) behavior on W, so I'd rather see you overestimate the negative possibilities a little. Does that make sense?
