Separated and W has a BF.

[RedHeadWife]

I hate to say this... but she seems to respond more when I get a little angry about the situation.

Well, Jar, you know your W. Maybe that's what she needs -- seriously, a good A$$ whipping -- you to tear her a new one up one side & down the other, walk away and she's going to get scared shitless she's going to seriously lose you.

I thought about this for a bit and thought that might be what may have woken me up had I ever decided to play the little games our WAS's like to play. I've just never been on that side of the fence.

Now, I'm NOT saying you SHOULD do this - don't want to be blamed for anything later, but just saying everyone is different in how they react to things and how people need to deal w/ them in certain circumstances.